In the fighter pilot community, you leave a nickel to honor a fighter pilot who has "flown west."
It harkens back to an old drinking song, a refrain from which was "throw a nickel on the grass, save a fighter pilot's ass."
Today, if you visit the grave of a fighter pilot who has passed, and he still has many friends, there will be nickelss there.
Misunderstanding by: TLaRochelle
Last Sunday the Patriot Guard Riders completed a special mission of placing placards by the graves of all soldiers from our state that have died in the war on terror since 911.
I just then learned of the coin tradition but misunderstood it a bit. We thought that leaving a nickle meant that you served in the same military branch, not necessarily together. A dime if you served in the same conflict and a quarter if in the same unit at the time of the soldiers death.
Thanks for posting and clearing it up for me.
Wendy: Just googled this again and here is what a military board.. Especially the end, "Today, the denomination of the coin left on the headstone has become less significant because so few people carry coins other than quarters."