Retired alone but now separated from husband...
by Linda
(Iowa)
I wrote back in December about my crazy husband having to have a girlfriend who is married to another. She is 47 years old but wow she has taken my husband over in a heart beat.
Now I didn't just walk away, I put up one hell of a fight. But then husband has a mental illness called Narcissist which is lover of self and he lies all the time. All the time.
I can't trust him so now we are separated but not legally but I believe that is coming fast in the next few months.
Gee I so look forward to retiring and traveling. But the most I travel now is pushing a snow blower around at my son's house.
Oh yes now we get to throw in domestic violence into the mix too. It's true folks you can't have two women into one marriage, not in Iowa and not in my marriage. A divorce with a Narcissist man would be hell because he lies so much.
So believe I will be alone all my retirement but I am going to have some fun. Oh yes, and I am looking forward to Spring!
