Upset with Retired Husband
I hate my husband being retired. I retired at 67, him at 58. We had lived apart working in different places visiting every 10 days.
I’m beginning to despise him. He thinks he should sit in the middle of the house (open concept) I hate it. He thinks the dining room table is his office and the kitchen counter is for whatever.
He does not understand I have to do things in a certain order. I keep my weight down, he eats whatever he wants. He buys junk food that I don’t want around the house. I don’t drive here because the traffic is unbelievable.
I’m supposed to tell him what I want from the store. He constantly grocery shops to save money. Nobody is going to eat all this food!
I cry a lot because I just don’t want to have this lifestyle. I was a respected teacher with many responsibilities. He does nothing but vacuum.
He insists he needs a workshop for his things. He has storage rentals with stuff he doesn’t use. I think he’s close to being a hoarder. (His mother is).
I just don't know what to do.